Sunday, November 23, 2008

In heterosexualized spaces even friendship can only be between boy-girl or two girls; no male-male even as simple friends!!

An application for sending scraps with pictures on orkut, has different themes for different scraps. It's divided into categories like 'celebrations', 'icebreakers', 'love', 'friendship', 'tease', etc.

It would be too much to expect a any society, leave alone a heterosexualized society to show figures of two males in the love section. But, yes, you'd expect to see at least some representation of two girls or two boys together in the friendship section. However, heterosexualized spaces have socially engineered such fear of any kind of intimacy between men, even plain friendship, because it portrays all of them as 'homosexual' (and thus unmanly and third gender).

Therefore, eventhough an Indian has desgined it, and it is clear that it is a man who designed this, because women don't have anything to worry about by showing two men as friends -- the friendship section contains illustrations of two girls together as friends. One of them even shows two girls as kissing (friends?) and a heart sign. There are other illustrations where a girl and a boy are shown together to represent friendship. BUT, there are no images of two men as friends... since the creator would be too scared to be labelled 'gay' if he does that. So, in heterosexualized societies, at least at formal level, any social bonding can only be between two opposite sexes -- be it love or even simple friendship. And unless the designer has something to hide he will not be so scared... but then don't all 'straight' men have something to hide as far as their desires for another man are concerned?

And the Western society still thinks of itself as superior, manly and an open society! How hypocrite can you get. Everything about Western society is a sham... a pretense... double standards... unnatural... artificial... including its heterosexuality and homosexuality.


Believe it or not, this is just pure friendship... nothing wrong in it for heterosexualized societies if straight women kiss...


And believe it or not, this is also an illustration of friendship... but no two males as friends... that's unacceptable for men who are labelled 'heterosexual'.


 And this is the icebreaking section... again between a man and a woman... I mean why would a 'straight' man want to break ice with a man...??? uggggghhhh!!!

1 comment:

Sanjana said...

Hello Natural. You are indeed a genius. But do you mean to say that men secretly really yearn for such a friendship even if they are not open to that on a formal level?